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1. I just saw the one day commercial with Joe Jonas and ew.
2. Guys are so complicated...the guys that say they're your friends are only your friends when they need you for something, a tutor, a sex buddy, an ear to listen when they're having problems with their cheating or canniving girlfriends. And when they realize that you can offer them so much more, they run from you, scared of what could possibly be something great.
Sadly, we end up doing the same thing in return. We become so involved in what we want, and what we feel we deserve, that we fail to realize that there are people out there who do appreciate us. But we don't want them, we're set in stone in desiring the unattainable, the whole thing comes full circle, and we're trapped in a whirlwind of emotion.
This is why I stay stuck in a world of fantasy. I dream up what I want, I create my own lovestory, in which I get the man of my dreams, and we have a love so untouchable, in which everything we do is in perfect harmony with each other. But then, when I sleep, my "visions" take on a mind of their own. They become molded into what feels like reality, and I see things I don't see in my waking life. I see glimpses of what could be my future, what my life could be like, or what it would be like if I were someone else, did something else, or lived somewhere else.
I guess I can say my life is a little on the side of unusual...but it takes me to unexpected places, and that, I love.

Some Girls Like it Too

Awesome title, but yet I'm talking about porn.  Yes, I'm serious, some girls like it too.  Think about it, if we didn't, you wouldn't have it, because there would be no ladies in the industry.  However, since there are plenty of women in the industry of porn, I think it's safe to say, we like it too.
It doesn't stop there.  We like to watch just like the next guy that walks into the room.  But just like the situation with masturbation, we prefer to have the real thing.  It's kind of like the thing we go to for the little bit of moisture it would take to get a toy in there.  And if at any point this gets too graphic for some of you please feel free to stop reading.  If you're getting a little excited, do yourself a favor, go to your favorite site, pick your favorite clip and enjoy.

So why is porn so appealing?  Well, like any other thing in life, we turn to videos and movies for educational purposes.  Porn falls in that same boat.  I mean really, when we want to learn something new sexually, we can do one of two things, try it out the next time you have an encounter, or watch a porno.  Either way, we sit there to educate ourelves on a "new trick".  And guys, don't you dare sit there and act like you never asked your girl to be like that chick you saw in that video, or to dress like her.

And ladies, when a guy asks you to be that girl, ask him to be that guy.  Tell him the things you want him to do, give him the positions you want to try, because it shouldn't be up to only him to "spice up your life", it's about compromise.  Oh and there's absolutely nothing wrong with a guy watching girl on girl action, they get excited about more than one set of titties, but guys, don't be so upset if a chick likes to watch guy on guy action...some girls like to see different sized weenies. 

Is it weird that I'm writing about this topic? Not at all.  It is super easy to write about any topic nowadays with the amount of information that the web can give us.  And if you're a smart cookie, you can use that info to come up with your own opinions, inferences, and write a pretty decent entry about it.  But hey, again, why not sit back, relax, and just watch it any way you can get it :)

Untitled Blog of Love

 

I sit here listening to my iPod because I can't sleep (and apparently I can't type either). I've got a few things on my mind tonight and one of them is one of the members of phunk phenomenon on ABDC bcz he's hot despite the fact that he's not my type, yet somehow I feel like I could fall for a dude that looks like he does. Besides that, I'm also thinking about how I want more from my life. I need a better job already and I keep applying to what feels like faraway dreams and improbabilities.

I'm that girl who's loved a great deal by her friends, who has to be told constantly that she is indeed a great girl, otherwise, she'll never believe it.  Nor does she believe that she's beautiful, or that she's amazing, and all those great things that only her friends and family can seem to atest to.  Despite my best efforts, and despite not making one and trying to let love find me rather than me trying to find love, I have spent and experienced years of finding nothing worthwile, and finding everything that I didn't need.

I want to feel a love like no other, one that caters to the hopeless romantic in me, one that generates a connection on a chemical level to where our brain waves and our souls vibe together in ways never imagined. The thing about me, is that I will admit I can love easily, and sometimes I do.  But I know that the love, the trust, and the effort I put into these men, only result in friendships, which I am more than satisfied with, because I know these are people I can seek comfort in, and some sort of reassurance, or at least honest feedback. 


ONE DAY...(haha I had to, being that it's part of the title of my page), I will find perfection, because perfection is what I seek.  And I don't mean perfection in personality, or physical appearance, but I mean perfection in our compatibility.  Our personalities will complement each other, and we'd fit like two pieces of a puzzle.  It's a dream, yes, it's a wish that I've made upon hundreds of stars, and countless times on 11:11.  As many times as I'd like to have given up, I can never seem to lose hope, because there's just a part of me that won't let it die. That hopeless romantic in me that screams to be in front of the tv, and as the rain falls outside my window a tear rolls down my cheek as I think of all my favorite TV couples, wanting and yearning for that which I have yet to experience. With that said, I can only hope to find those things, so that I may feel some type of fulfillment rather than a massive void.

There's No Love Like Our Love

HAHAHA...if you thought this was a sappy love post about me and someone else, yeahhh ok.

The love I'm referring to is my love for music, and my secret love for dance (which I regret not taking up in my lifetime).

The above song, gets me so pumped :) It's Don Omar's remake of the Lambada song, his being called "Taboo".  If you watch the original Lambada video, the dancing, while basic rhythmic dancing, is just so seductive. Speaking of seductive, that's exactly what Don Omar is.

To the point of this blog, we are in a wave of the new dance and music craze.  Covering a song is becoming the norm with shows like Glee producing chart-topping renditions of old and new favorites, not to mention American Idol, in which contestants perform songs as well, and those also become iTunes chart toppers.

And the dancing! With shows like So You Think You Can Dance, Dancing with the Stars and America's Best Dance Crew, who wouldn't want to get up and take a class or two?  I mean DWTS is in its 12th season, SYTYCD is in I believe its 8th and ABDC is in its 6th.  Not to mention today's music videos producing "dance crazes" like 2 stepping, the dougie, the cat daddy (which because of ICONic Boys is my favorite), jerking, etc.  To those who could do it all, I'm so jealous, but I have to say, it just makes me love it more.  But my favorite has to be the DWTS routine of Duet of a Lifetime.  By far the cutest, sweetest thing I've seen. 

If you get bored and love music and dance as I do, and you haven't checked out all I've talked about...google it :) and ENJOY



Here Comes the Bride...Hm, hm, hm-hmmmm

MARRIAGE!!!!
It's on our minds.  With the royal wedding being all over the tabloids, and all over television and lifetime for that matter, who wouldn't want to start or continue dreaming of their own wedding?
I dream of an outside wedding, with one of those archy thingies (I always forget what they're called) decorated with gerbera daisies and alstromerias. White chairs arranged in rows with ribbons possibly in canary yellow, or maybe a salmon type of color.  The flowers made to match the color theme.  The roll out "carpet" to be a soft pink, red is too bold and too vibrant.  The place I want, is actually a park in my town, and there's this one spot where it's by this water area, where it flows out from a beautiful structure.  I want a long dress, but not one with a long train, that's too much for me, just one that flows a little outward, so I'm not tripping over it either.  Depending on how long my hair is, if it's short, I'd want a cute frill of curls, but if it's longer, still curls, but no up-do, all lengthy and flowing. 
As for the preparation stuff, I'll be doing it on my own.  The color theme may change in the future, as not everyone stays with the same favorite color forever, but regardless of the color schemes, I will definitely be designing my own invitations, and utilizing methods I see fit, as I am a bargain shopper.

I haven't thought much more into it, as I've yet to find that right guy...as to what I look for in him, well we'll just save that for another post :) 

Boys and Toys...or Boys as Toys?

Question:  Would you rather use Boys and Toys? Or rather use a boy as your toy?

Before I begin, here's some basic stats for you:

44% of women between the ages of 18 and 60 have used a sex toy, 20% of men report using a vibrator.
1 in 5 woman masturbate at least once a week...Of those women, 60% report using a sex toy in their "play".
78% of women who report using a sex toy, stated they were in arelationship, 23% of adults use sex toys in their relationship.

So let's begin our discussion. So 56 percent of women have not used a sex toy, and why is that?  Well talking amongst a few friends, I have found that those women say "Why use a toy, when I can just get the real thing?"  Fascinating fact is, apparently women who have used a sex toy are not only more self confident, but they also have more orgasms when they do have sexual relations with their partner. 

So back to the boys as toys thing.  Is there such a thing as using a boy to experiment with your own body? To allow someone to touch along every curve, every nook, and to find the spots that release the most pleasure, to give them permission to navigate their way along the very thing that is our temple, to find what makes our toes curl, our muscles tighten, and spasm.  One would think that it takes just as much confidence to be able to trust a man with our bodies, a man who has never experienced our body before, even if he experienced others, as every woman is different, and sensitive to different things, in different areas.  It would take a great deal of trust, and a great deal of confidence to allow such a thing to happen, even if we don't get the full gratification out of it.  But if we don't get full gratification, who is at fault, you or him?  Is it his because he doesn't know the ways, or you for not telling him?  Maybe you weren't in the mood, maybe he wasn't.  Maybe he got lost, but half the fun should be in the discovery process anyway! Women shouldn't have to hand men a map to our bodies, with the prime location for pleasure, where's the fun in it? Then the question becomes, if we don't get that full pleasurable release, do we lose confidence in ourselves, and our sexual abilities, forcing us to rely on toys rather than allowing ourselves to experience that which a man has to offer?

So, tell me what you think...I'm curious

TV Romances

 

So these two above are my absolute favorite TV couple ever.  Why? Mostly because of Katie Andrews played by Autumn Reeser.  Katie is a 28 year old assistant lab tech who is by far the cutest thing imaginable.  She's quirky, and she's a complete comic book geek, and the characters she fancies, are the same characters that I'd be attracted to.  So when she finds Joshua, played by Josh Stewart (who I will say, is dreamy in a mysterious sort of way), their romance is one that I completely envy, but you'd have to watch the show to understand.  Joshua is Katie's comic book superhero, and their love, while unique, is one that I understand, and one that I could only hope to have.



Now these two:  Penelope Garcia and Derek Morgan...they have an undeniable friendship in which Morgan would do everything in his power to protect Garcia from any harm, and Garcia worries every moment that Morgan faces danger, that he won't return from the latest case.  She is the database tech for the FBI, their resource to the information superhighway, and the one Morgan calls on for information on any suspect or victim.  What I love about them?  Her always clever, sometimes graphic but also playful nicknames for him. And yet, these two are not a couple...but man with their chemistry, they should be...