Sources: Alloy.com; YourTango.com; iVillage.com
This one took a little longer to write, and I'm sorry. The other day I asked advice from a guy friend on the different types of kisses a guy typically tends to go for. One question in particular was the "kiss on the forehead". I feel like typically, this isn't one that's talked about very much, and it also isn't used very often in my opinion. In exploring for answers, I have to say I didn't find much. My friend says that it's a good thing when a guy kisses a girl on the forehead. It's a sign of affection I guess. Some sites confirm it, but other sites also say that it's a sign that a guy is basically pulling back, signaling that he doesn't want the relationship to go further than where it is at that moment. So I guess the important thing to look at with that one, is the context or the situation in which the kiss is delivered.
It wouldn't have been enough to just talk about the one type of kiss...so I decided to decode some other more "popular" styles of kissing. Of the several websites searched, these are the most common and easiest to decode, but I'll also give you signs of how to know when they're ready for each one, and when girls should be ready :)
The peck, is often the type of kiss guys use early on in the relationship, or rather, the dating process. It's a sign that they want to kiss you, really kiss you. This one is also sometimes called the "closed mouth kiss". Sometimes it may last a little longer, and sometimes a guy will pull away, but stay near your lips, waiting for you to make the next move. If you notice that he's trying to tease you into a kiss, it won't be long til you're experiencing full on lip action.
French Kiss. This one became my favorite after reading these articles. To hear guys describe this one is funny. So to some, the french kiss is the king of all kisses. But it comes in different styles, and not only that, it's a sign of passionate things to come. If you're locked into a french kissing situation, there's some things to do and look out for. Standard french kissing is often the best kind because it uses a playful amount of tongue. If a guy really wants to take the moment to the next level, there'll be plenty of touching involved. Often times a guy will either place his hands on your hips or on the back of your neck and along your face. I often say that a touch is one of the things that drive us women wild.
When it comes to french kissing, you should be looking out for the tongue tango and the slobber. Both are signs that the relationship may lead in a completely less desired direction. If done properly, the tongue tango can be a sign of how playful he is, both in and out of the bedroom. But then there's what some call lizard or propeller tongue...it's where the tongue just flickers in one direction, one speed, and often times in a rhythm that turns you off. Now, do I really need to explain the slobber? That one's just gross.
Let's quickly go into some other styles. Two other popular well liked styles are the bend back and the playful neck bite. The bend back is basically when a guy slightly bends the girl back, usually by grabbing on to the back of her neck, before kissing her. Often times this is done passionately and is a sign that he's taking control and wants you to know that in that moment, you're his, but not in a possessive creepy way, but in a way that let's you know that even though he's super masculine, he adores you. Then there's the playful necking. While kissing we often don't just stay on the lips, we like to explore. So we explore by kissing the next spot closest to the lips, and that's our neck. Now this is usually when things start to get a little heavier, so be sure that all intentions are clear.
Kissing can be fun, but often times it can be hard to decode exactly what it is that's going to come out of it. A lot of guys nowadays look at kissing as a sign of intimacy, especially the ones that are afraid of it. Their biggest fear is giving off the impression of getting to close by participating in the wrong type of kissing style. What most people forget is that kissing is also used as foreplay, and fellas, understand this, some girls just need to be kissed!
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